iPhone connection Help

No matter what method I try, I can’t seem to connect to my iPhone.
I have tried WinSCP with iTunnel but they say, “network error: connection timeout”.
I tried DiskAid, but they say my iPhone is not jailbroken when it is.
I installed iphonebrowser but it keeps crashing.
I installed openssh and Nat’s true iPhone ssh(something like that) but still wouldn’t work.
I really need some help. Thanks.
Answer #1
What are you trying to accomplish?
Answer #2
Does iTunes recognize your iPhone?
Answer #3
Yes, iTunes does. I’m trying to connect it through ssh.
Answer #4
Hm… Reboot your iPhone. Maybe this will help… It is realy weird.
If your iPhone is jailbroken, everything should work
Answer #5
I’ve did that quite a few times.
Answer #6
I meant what are you trying to accomplish as in why do you need to SSH it?
Answer #7
I want to install themes from the net, change some of the internal ring tones, change the password and maybe some other stuff.
Answer #8
Can anybody help?